Let Them Eat Cake

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Troy Headrick
The American University in Cairo
Maadi, Cairo, Egypt
contact@savvy-women-magazine.com






I just love this video! It’s a wonderful example of creative thinking and problem solving in action.

Creativity and creative problem solving are two of my favorite blog subjects. For those of you who are similarly interested in these closely related topics, I’ve blogged about them here and here. The video is a case study in how a person can solve a problem, no matter how big, when a creative approach is used. In Angela Logan’s case, she is faced with the problem of needing to raise money to save her Teaneck, New Jersey, home from foreclosure. Her method of overcoming this challenge is one that everyone can learn from.

Firstly, I noticed that Angela very quickly identified a talent that she had and used it to great effect. She knew how to bake delicious cakes, and so she used this ability to raise funds. Watching Angela go to work in her kitchen reminds me of the time when I was in graduate school and similarly needed to augment my income. I had a job as a teaching assistant, but that didn’t really pay enough for me to live on, so I had to find a second job. This problem was made more difficult by the fact that I was so busy with my studies that I didn’t really have much time or energy to devote to such an undertaking. I knew, though, that I’ve always been a pretty good conversationalist and that I had some background as a teacher of English as a Second Language, so I decided to hire myself out to international students who wanted to work on perfecting their speaking abilities in English. All I had to do was sit and talk with nonnative speakers for an hour at a time and was paid quite well for doing so. Thus, the first step in creative problem solving is finding a tool that feels comfortable in one’s hand and then putting it to good use.

Secondly, Angela did not allow herself to feel overwhelmed by the difficulty facing her. Her problem was indeed large and thus daunting, but she was not daunted by it. That’s because she focused on the ” little picture.” She broke her problem down into small, manageable bits and pieces. This is made clear in the video when she set her first goal: to sell one hundred cakes in ten days. Reaching this provided her with the confidence she needed to set a second, larger objective. With each accomplishment, she built momentum, acquired confidence, and put a new piece of the puzzle in place. Rather than looking at the whole forest, she strategically decided to focus her vision on the individual trees that make up that forest.

Thirdly, Angela did not allow her pride to get in the way of her creative thinking. She asked those who are close to her to buy her first one hundred cakes, but she admits that it was difficult for her to do this. As an educator, I find that many students make the mistake of failing to ask for help when they have difficulties with the work I’ve asked them to do. Actually, I can understand this reluctance, on the part of some, because I am the sort of person who hates to admit that I am incapable of doing something wholly on my own. I suppose I feel I have to be self-sufficient in all things. Thinking this way, though, is a mistake and perhaps even a character flaw. Reaching out for help is not a sign of weakness. On the contrary, it is a way of becoming enriched and empowered, two very good things to be. Not reaching out for help, because one finds it embarrassing to do so, is like allowing one’s thinking to be clouded by emotionality.

By the way, my favorite book on creative thinking and problem solving is Edward de Bono’s Six Thinking Hats, a really good read.

Take care until next week.

Beauty without Borders

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Troy Headrick
The American University in Cairo
Maadi, Cairo, Egypt
contact@savvy-women-magazine.com

I’ll be honest. When I first watched this must-see video about female empowerment, I became very emotional, especially as it became more and more about Sima Calkin and the story she had to tell.

Now, as I’m sitting here wondering where I should go with this blog after my opening paragraph, I’ve had a sudden inspiration. I’ve just remembered an old friend, someone I’ve known for a long time, a professional artist buddy, who once made a very bold proclamation during a conversation we were having about art and creativity and the like. In the middle of our talk, my friend asserted, “Art saves lives!”

After watching this video, I now think the same thing could be said about beauty and those (hairdressers and make-up artists and such) who help others become more beautiful. Beauty, like art, can save lives. All the evidence one would ever need to have to support such a claim can be found in Kabul Beauty School–Afghanistan.

From an aesthetic standpoint, my favorite part of the video comes in the opening minutes. The film begins in Kabul. There are numerous shots of people moving about on the capital city’s crowded and dirty streets. Many of those people are women who are clad in atrocious blue burkas. There is a soundtrack of traditional Afghan music playing in the background. Then, without warning, the scene changes. The viewer is now suddenly transported to a NYC fashion show, and there are images of female models, all wearing the very latest (i.e. not blue burkas) by the world’s great designers. These gorgeous women, some wearing very little (i.e. not blue burkas) are walking, in that bouncy way that models walk, up and down the catwalk. The music is different too. It’s now something very electronic and trendy. The juxtaposition of the streets of Kabul with this scene from a fashion show in The Big Apple is jarring. Those two places are literally (and figuratively) worlds apart. But, as the viewer is soon to learn, they are about to come together.

From an emotional standpoint, my favorite part of the video comes toward the end when Sima goes looking for her girlhood home and finds it. She breaks down as she goes inside the abandoned place and remembers what it had been like before she’d fled Afghanistan twenty-three years earlier.

While giving an interview prior to leaving for Afghanistan, Sima says something that’s very telling. She admits that she originally had misgivings about returning to her homeland. She wondered (I’m paraphrasing) what she had to offer. After all, she wasn’t a doctor, nor was she a nurse; she was only a hairdresser. What sort of contribution could a mere beautician make in her war-torn country? As the viewer comes to find out, the answer to this question is: quite a large contribution, actually.

I hope I don’t sound too preachy here, but there is a lesson in this for all of us. We can all make a contribution. We shouldn’t sell ourselves short.

Final comment: It’s an uplifting video that shows what can be done when a bunch of American women (some originally from Afghanistan) decide to help some of their sisters in a part of the world that is so often so misunderstood.

Most Common Fashion Mistakes

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I know we all want the same thing, to look great! Right? Nothing can spoil your look more than a conspicuous fashion faux pas. Unfortunately, there are some fashion errors that we might not be aware of, but that we might practice. So, for the benefit of all the readers out there, we will point out the most common fashion mistakes and how to avoid them.

The Color Issue

Wearing the wrong colors

All skin tones among us are not created equal. To look your best, choose wardrobe colors that complement your skin. Wearing the wrong colors will make your skin appear sallow and lines and wrinkles may be more evident. The lime green or hot pink that you saw on the runways may look fabulous on models but horrible on you. Experiment with different colors, and stick with the palettes that look best on you. Don’t waste your money on clothes that make you look pale, sallow, jaundiced, or washed out.

Wearing red and green at the same time

Honestly, you will look like a Christmas tree. Red and green are two of the colors that you absolutely must avoid wearing together. These colors completely clash, so just stay clear. Also, it’s best to stay away from green and red makeup. If you decide to go for a green eyeshadow, don’t put on a bright red lipstick. Instead, opt for a clear gloss.

Wearing too many Colors

A common fashion mistake is using too many colors. As a general rule, wear up to three colors only, for an easy on the eye coordinated look.

The Shoes

Dirty shoes

It would be bad enough if you had shoes that were out of style, or didn’t match with your outfit, but if you have dirty shoes, you’re making a big fashion faux pas. Make sure to keep your shoes in style, according to your outfit, and most importantly, clean!

Bulky shoes with feminine dress

A floral, feminine dress should never be paired with bulky shoes such as thick platforms. This kind of dress deserves a pair of soft, delicate shoes. Anything with a small heel, and even wedges and espadrilles.

Messy Shoes

Take care of your shoes, for they complete your look. Also make sure they complement your outfit.

Rundown shoes

You look great…from the ankles up. If your shoes have seen better days, find a good shoe repair shop, and put them in for some TLC. Polish them regularly. Use a felt tip marker on scuffs, and put a piece of soft carpet under your feet when you drive. And most importantly, invest in a good pair if you’re going to wear them every day. Don’t buy them at the Five and Dime and then wonder why they don’t last.

Clothing & Shoes Should Match

Keep your clothing and shoes in the same color unless using black which goes with anything. Don’t ever make the mistake of mismatching light and dark colors (dark clothes and light shoes or vice vers).

Makeup

Too much makeup

Too much makeup creates a harsh look and makes lines appear deeper. Keep your daytime makeup light and evening makeup a little darker. If you are unsure of makeup application techniques, see a professional. Many popular cosmetic counters at your local department store will provide a free makeup session.

Inappropriate makeup

Light for day, heavier for evening, sheer for sports or other strenuous pursuits. You wear different clothes for different activities in you life; your makeup should change as well. And if you’re still doing Cleopatra eyes, it’s time to turn the page and see what’s happening THIS century in makeup styles.

These fashion mistakes tend to come from people not accepting their body type and wearing the latest fashion because it’s popular. To look your best, always be true to yourself, and you will present a stylish confident look that will create the right impression for all occasions.