We’re All Sisters (and Brothers)

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Troy Headrick
The American University in Cairo
Maadi, Cairo, Egypt
contact@savvy-women-magazine.com







After watching this CNN video on Gamma Gamma Chi, America’s first “Islamic-based” sorority, I had a look at the group’s website,  read about the organization’s history, and learned that it was founded, in 2005, by Dr. Althia F. Ali and Imani Canty. This “mother-daughter team” started the honor society as a way to “help improve the image of Muslim women and Islam in general.” Since its inception, the group has flowered and now has chapters located in several towns and cities throughout the United States.

I really enjoyed listening to Dr. Ali talk about Gamma Gamma Chi’s mission in the CNN piece. She came across as a great spokeswoman, especially as she discussed the ways the sorority could help “defy stereotypes” and then argued that this mission was needed because so few Americans have the opportunity to meet Muslims and interact with them. Toward the end of the video, Ali made it clear that the sorors were hoping to be as inclusive a group as possible and would welcome non-Muslims to either join the sorority or partner with it as it conducted various community-service projects.

I was drawn to this video because I’m an American who currently lives in Egypt and has spent most of the last twelve years living in the Middle East–firstly, in the United Arab Emirates and then later, in Turkey, before moving to Cairo. One of the reasons I continue to reside in this part of the world is related to something that Ali said. She pointed out that Muslim women should engage with non-Muslims and not shut themselves off. Actually, her point is an extremely important one. All of us should actively seek to meet as many different kinds of people as possible.

It’s only through interacting with others who are “different” that we learn and become (hopefully) tolerant of diversity. I have understood this ever since I joined the Peace Corps and was sent to live among Eastern Europeans. That experience helped me realize that I have a duty (to myself and to others) to learn as much as I can about the world and those who inhabit it, especially about those who live in places that are so often misunderstood by so many Americans. After educating myself about other places, peoples, and cultures, I can then do my part to educate those who have not had the opportunity to live in as many different countries as I have.

I hope I don’t sound too preachy here. That’s the last thing I want to sound like. I just very strongly believe that borders and boundaries (of all types) separate people, so we should do what we can to tear those walls down.

Not Bad Given the Circumstances

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Troy Headrick
The American University in Cairo
Maadi, Cairo, Egypt
contact@savvy-women-magazine.com






I have to beg your pardon this week. If you are a regular reader of this blog, you know that I like to feature videos. The drill goes something like this: I find a clip I like, something that needs to be written about and is appropriate for my audience, and then I put together some sort of commentary.

To do that, though, I need to be CONNECTED. I have to have ACCESS.

A couple of days ago, on Thursday morning to be precise, I lost my Internet at home. That morning I woke up to the unpleasant realization that my router was dead–that’s happened twice now in the past month–which leads me to believe that I’ve somehow gotten myself on the wrong side of the Internet Gods. Of course, I couldn’t do anything to remedy this situation at the moment of discovery because I had to get ready for work. (Yes, I’ll confess; I absolutely have to get online first thing in the morning, even before I break my fast, because I’m a junky, an e-freak, an addict with the worst sort of habit.)

To make a long story short, on Thursday, Friday, and Saturday, the days when I normally put together this week’s blog, I’ve been OFFLINE (and very much upset about it). Here, I have to say that it’s not like I haven’t been taking action (or at least trying to) to get out of this fix. I’ve made two trips to my Internet Service Provided (hereafter ISP). Both trips, however, have ended in abject failure. During my second trip, the techno-nerd manning my ISP’s Office of Technical Support handed me an instruction sheet that was supposed to “walk me through” the steps involved in reconfiguring the new router I’d had to purchased. The sheet made the whole thing look so simple, too. As a matter of fact, there were drawings (the type of illustrations that would have worked nicely in a book entitled Reconfiguring Your New Router for Dummies). I counted the pictures and saw that there were five. Five steps. That was it.

“Are you sure this is going to be this easy?” I asked the techno-nerd.

“Oh, yes, it is very easy.”

“You’re absolutely certain about that?” I queried again skeptically.

“It is going to be so simple.”

The certainty in his voice finally put me at ease, and I left my ISP feeling confident and hopeful.

Word to the wise: WHEN A TECHNO-NERD SAYS SOMETHING COMPUTER-RELATED IS GOING TO BE EASY, NEVER (EVER!) BELIEVE HIM OR HER.

Bottom line: I’m not online yet, but I think tomorrow might be THE MAGIC DAY. Until that day finally arrives, I’m making do (but rather poorly) at a local cafe/Wi-Fi hotspot, a place called The Green Mill. As a matter of fact, I was at said Mill last night, trying to view a couple of videos, clips that might have worked for this blog, but I had to keep my ear about three inches away from the speaker to hear what was being said, which meant that I couldn’t see the screen. I wouldn’t have had to “watch” like this, but there was a big table of very loud people not far away. After a couple of minutes sitting with my ear pressed up against my computer, one or two fellow patrons began to take notice of my odd behavior. At the moment that I noticed them noticing me, I said (not out loud, of course) this week we’re going to have to go to Plan B with the blog.

And this, my friends, is PLAN B.

Changing Direction

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Troy Headrick
The American University in Cairo
Maadi, Cairo, Egypt
contact@savvy-women-magazine.com






I found this brief CNN video that profiles Rosena Sammi. In the clip, Sammi, once a corporate lawyer but now a jewelry designer, discusses her career change and why she gave up such lucrative work to start her own business. According to the now-ex-attorney, making jewelry, which she considers “wearable” artwork, provides her with a “creative outlet” that was lacking in her former job. Though she’s made a dramatic change in her work life, she believes that the skills she gained as a lawyer are helping her succeed as an artist and designer.

The whole subject of changing careers is one that I’m interested in because I sometimes think (more like fantasize) about what it would be like if I could get out of teaching and do something entirely different. (Actually, a few years ago, I did just that and worked, for a time, as the director of a nonprofit museum.) Anyway, all this writing about leaving one type of life behind for another prompted me to go online to see if I could find out how many people are truly happy with their occupations. My feeling, before even looking at what the stats showed, was that many feel that the work they do is not the sort that is conducive to self-actualization.

I found this MSNBC article from 2007 that shows that most Americans (I wasn’t able, during the few minutes that I looked, to find numbers on people living and working elsewhere) are not terribly satisfied with their careers. OK, the article is a bit outdated, but I don’t see any reason why those numbers would have changed (for the better) in the last three years. Bottom line: dissatisfaction abounds in the workplace.

Like I said, none of this surprises me. The whole system is designed in such a way that career dissatisfaction is pretty much a guaranteed outcome. Students, when they first go to college, are asked to choose majors at an age when they have very limited life and work experience. Thus, at that age, most don’t know themselves well at all, yet they are asked to make very personal decisions that will shape their lives (and limit their options) well into the future. The way many of us go about choosing our careers is, I think, a recipe for much unhappiness.

That’s my two cents.